"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I throw a lot of parties at my apartment in college but I can't seem to get any girls in my room at the end of the night. I can hold a conversation but I need advice on specific things to say to seal the deal. Any advice would help, thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are not administering enough alcohol.

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Originally posted by musicman01
I throw a lot of parties at my apartment in college but I can't seem to get any girls in my room at the end of the night. I can hold a conversation but I need advice on specific things to say to seal the deal. Any advice would help, thanks.
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Are you waiting until the end of the night to attempt at taking them to your room? Start taking them into your room at any time during the party. If she's digging you, then take her to your room to show her something. Key is her feeling comfortable in your bed and ready to escalate things when called for.

You gotta escalate and build the tension. Test-close, test-kino, to see how receptive they are, etc.
 
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