"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I throw a lot of parties at my apartment in college but I can't seem to get any girls in my room at the end of the night. I can hold a conversation but I need advice on specific things to say to seal the deal. Any advice would help, thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You are not administering enough alcohol.

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Originally posted by musicman01
I throw a lot of parties at my apartment in college but I can't seem to get any girls in my room at the end of the night. I can hold a conversation but I need advice on specific things to say to seal the deal. Any advice would help, thanks.
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Are you waiting until the end of the night to attempt at taking them to your room? Start taking them into your room at any time during the party. If she's digging you, then take her to your room to show her something. Key is her feeling comfortable in your bed and ready to escalate things when called for.

You gotta escalate and build the tension. Test-close, test-kino, to see how receptive they are, etc.
 
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