"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I throw a lot of parties at my apartment in college but I can't seem to get any girls in my room at the end of the night. I can hold a conversation but I need advice on specific things to say to seal the deal. Any advice would help, thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You are not administering enough alcohol.

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Originally posted by musicman01
I throw a lot of parties at my apartment in college but I can't seem to get any girls in my room at the end of the night. I can hold a conversation but I need advice on specific things to say to seal the deal. Any advice would help, thanks.

Are you waiting until the end of the night to attempt at taking them to your room? Start taking them into your room at any time during the party. If she's digging you, then take her to your room to show her something. Key is her feeling comfortable in your bed and ready to escalate things when called for.

You gotta escalate and build the tension. Test-close, test-kino, to see how receptive they are, etc.
 
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