"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok so is being a Don Jaun about being a jerk?, i mean the goal is to get women and to have sex right?.

So why does it feel wrong to lead a girl on thinking it might mean more when it does'nt?...and the girl won't have a ons with you unless you kinda talk abit of crap and lie.

I dunno, just wondering how everyone else deals with one night stands....like do you ignore txts and calls after it?.
I always get the girls wanting more after i go home...and i feel guilty then for that.

Ok sorry this is abit crappy, still hungover from last night :D

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you like her see her again... if not dont bother returning calls/txts.
Simple.
 
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ONS is ONS because you're only doing it for one night. You don't go back for second and third. Just move on a long...
 
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Who said that being a DJ meant you had to be a jerk?

As a DJ you must make all your intentions clear.

Who said you had to lie or cheat to get laid?

Women love sex as much we do. And show her you don't kiss and tell.
 
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Being a Don Juan means owning a womans mind, body and soul through your words, your actions, your presence and your masculinity. It has nothing to do with being a jerk. The fact that you percieve the 'jerk' as something outside yourself, something negative to be in opposition to means that you have not mentally made the transition to the mindset needed to be successful in this game. For example, alot of people saw the jocks and quarterbacks as the jerks who got all the chicks and so see them as the jerks and *******s. But if you were one of those guys getting all the chicks along with them, would you see them as so bad? It's all a matter of perception.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I heard a concept someone told me about, it's called the "slow fade". I've done it before without realizing it.

She will call you back, but slowly you space out the intervals that you return her calls or text.

A girl told my friend about it. She does it with guys when she wants to get rid of them. Pretty funny term for something I'm sure we've all done with someone before!
 
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Yeah it be ok if it was as simple as that, but i'm bound to bump into her again as she goes to the same places i go.
 
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I try and not have ONS but try for first night stands. I always tell them beforehand that I don't wanna be their b/f, but I'd love to have fun with them. I usually always call them in the future and sleep with them again....you can never have too many fvck buddies imo.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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L777 said:
I try and not have ONS but try for first night stands. I always tell them beforehand that I don't wanna be their b/f, but I'd love to have fun with them. I usually always call them in the future and sleep with them again....you can never have too many fvck buddies imo.
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Guess that's what i'm going to have to be saying everytime i meet a girl then.
 
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