“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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One night stands gone wrong.

demonic

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Ok so is being a Don Jaun about being a jerk?, i mean the goal is to get women and to have sex right?.

So why does it feel wrong to lead a girl on thinking it might mean more when it does'nt?...and the girl won't have a ons with you unless you kinda talk abit of crap and lie.

I dunno, just wondering how everyone else deals with one night stands....like do you ignore txts and calls after it?.
I always get the girls wanting more after i go home...and i feel guilty then for that.

Ok sorry this is abit crappy, still hungover from last night :D

Demonic
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you like her see her again... if not dont bother returning calls/txts.
Simple.
 

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ONS is ONS because you're only doing it for one night. You don't go back for second and third. Just move on a long...
 

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Who said that being a DJ meant you had to be a jerk?

As a DJ you must make all your intentions clear.

Who said you had to lie or cheat to get laid?

Women love sex as much we do. And show her you don't kiss and tell.
 

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Being a Don Juan means owning a womans mind, body and soul through your words, your actions, your presence and your masculinity. It has nothing to do with being a jerk. The fact that you percieve the 'jerk' as something outside yourself, something negative to be in opposition to means that you have not mentally made the transition to the mindset needed to be successful in this game. For example, alot of people saw the jocks and quarterbacks as the jerks who got all the chicks and so see them as the jerks and *******s. But if you were one of those guys getting all the chicks along with them, would you see them as so bad? It's all a matter of perception.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I heard a concept someone told me about, it's called the "slow fade". I've done it before without realizing it.

She will call you back, but slowly you space out the intervals that you return her calls or text.

A girl told my friend about it. She does it with guys when she wants to get rid of them. Pretty funny term for something I'm sure we've all done with someone before!
 

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Yeah it be ok if it was as simple as that, but i'm bound to bump into her again as she goes to the same places i go.
 

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I try and not have ONS but try for first night stands. I always tell them beforehand that I don't wanna be their b/f, but I'd love to have fun with them. I usually always call them in the future and sleep with them again....you can never have too many fvck buddies imo.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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L777 said:
I try and not have ONS but try for first night stands. I always tell them beforehand that I don't wanna be their b/f, but I'd love to have fun with them. I usually always call them in the future and sleep with them again....you can never have too many fvck buddies imo.
Guess that's what i'm going to have to be saying everytime i meet a girl then.
 
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