"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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One night stands gone wrong.

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demonic

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Ok so is being a Don Jaun about being a jerk?, i mean the goal is to get women and to have sex right?.

So why does it feel wrong to lead a girl on thinking it might mean more when it does'nt?...and the girl won't have a ons with you unless you kinda talk abit of crap and lie.

I dunno, just wondering how everyone else deals with one night stands....like do you ignore txts and calls after it?.
I always get the girls wanting more after i go home...and i feel guilty then for that.

Ok sorry this is abit crappy, still hungover from last night :D

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you like her see her again... if not dont bother returning calls/txts.
Simple.
 
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ONS is ONS because you're only doing it for one night. You don't go back for second and third. Just move on a long...
 
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Who said that being a DJ meant you had to be a jerk?

As a DJ you must make all your intentions clear.

Who said you had to lie or cheat to get laid?

Women love sex as much we do. And show her you don't kiss and tell.
 
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Being a Don Juan means owning a womans mind, body and soul through your words, your actions, your presence and your masculinity. It has nothing to do with being a jerk. The fact that you percieve the 'jerk' as something outside yourself, something negative to be in opposition to means that you have not mentally made the transition to the mindset needed to be successful in this game. For example, alot of people saw the jocks and quarterbacks as the jerks who got all the chicks and so see them as the jerks and *******s. But if you were one of those guys getting all the chicks along with them, would you see them as so bad? It's all a matter of perception.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I heard a concept someone told me about, it's called the "slow fade". I've done it before without realizing it.

She will call you back, but slowly you space out the intervals that you return her calls or text.

A girl told my friend about it. She does it with guys when she wants to get rid of them. Pretty funny term for something I'm sure we've all done with someone before!
 
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Yeah it be ok if it was as simple as that, but i'm bound to bump into her again as she goes to the same places i go.
 
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I try and not have ONS but try for first night stands. I always tell them beforehand that I don't wanna be their b/f, but I'd love to have fun with them. I usually always call them in the future and sleep with them again....you can never have too many fvck buddies imo.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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L777 said:
I try and not have ONS but try for first night stands. I always tell them beforehand that I don't wanna be their b/f, but I'd love to have fun with them. I usually always call them in the future and sleep with them again....you can never have too many fvck buddies imo.
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Guess that's what i'm going to have to be saying everytime i meet a girl then.
 
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