"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One night stand tips please

wildchild

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I know alot of you guys say that meeting in clubs is bad but has anyone got tips on meeting a girl in a nightclub / bar and taking her home that night to have sex and thats the end of it?
I know its good to get girls phone numbers / emails if u wanna date / have sex but if u wanna cut that 2nd step out how would u recommend going about it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TizZle

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I had an ONS with my one of my friend's friends. I got her phone number and just told her i didn't want to be one of those guys that just has sex and never talks to her again. I ended up banging her 2 more times. That's all she was worth and i figured what the hell. Big Red flag was that she was 120 miles away and that disqualified her from LTR material for me aside from other numerous things.
 

Wiesman44

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Main thing about ONS is that you have to be FUN. Go to a nightclub, bar, or whatever, sure its nice to talk to her and connect with her. But you have to be fun. Tease her, push her, flirt with, get her laughing. Make her think your so god damn fun that she should join you for a drink back at your place. If your the typical guy that makes conversation, she's not gonna want to. Its also a good idea to use LOTS of kino. Get her horny, then go for the kill.
 

wildchild

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nice one wiseman i can see your point i tried this before and got invited back to the girls flat - although two of my m8s ****blocked me.
 

Hot Ice

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#1 tip of 'em all:

Use a condom!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rogerman

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The trick is to make her know that you respect her and dont think of her as a slut. And you just want to have fun.

Now how you do that exactly, I dont know.
 

Hot Ice

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Originally posted by Rogerman
The trick is to make her know that you respect her and dont think of her as a slut. And you just want to have fun.

Now how you do that exactly, I dont know.
Why do you post things you don't even know how to do them? :(
 

Gangster Of Love

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Why do you post things you don't even know how to do them? :(
Because like most on these boards, he's a keyboard jockey
 

Wiesman44

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Originally posted by Rogerman
The trick is to make her know that you respect her and dont think of her as a slut. And you just want to have fun.

Now how you do that exactly, I dont know.
If anyone can explain how to do this in words, I'm all ears, lol.
 

tom121

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hmmm...

tell her you like to see her again in the future so she doesn't think it was a ONS, or tell her to cook you breakfast, she'll understand ;) :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blue17

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lol I really like that term 'keyboard jockey' it's pretty funny.
 
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