"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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One night stand tips please

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wildchild

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I know alot of you guys say that meeting in clubs is bad but has anyone got tips on meeting a girl in a nightclub / bar and taking her home that night to have sex and thats the end of it?
I know its good to get girls phone numbers / emails if u wanna date / have sex but if u wanna cut that 2nd step out how would u recommend going about it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I had an ONS with my one of my friend's friends. I got her phone number and just told her i didn't want to be one of those guys that just has sex and never talks to her again. I ended up banging her 2 more times. That's all she was worth and i figured what the hell. Big Red flag was that she was 120 miles away and that disqualified her from LTR material for me aside from other numerous things.
 
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Main thing about ONS is that you have to be FUN. Go to a nightclub, bar, or whatever, sure its nice to talk to her and connect with her. But you have to be fun. Tease her, push her, flirt with, get her laughing. Make her think your so god damn fun that she should join you for a drink back at your place. If your the typical guy that makes conversation, she's not gonna want to. Its also a good idea to use LOTS of kino. Get her horny, then go for the kill.
 
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nice one wiseman i can see your point i tried this before and got invited back to the girls flat - although two of my m8s ****blocked me.
 
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#1 tip of 'em all:

Use a condom!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The trick is to make her know that you respect her and dont think of her as a slut. And you just want to have fun.

Now how you do that exactly, I dont know.
 
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Originally posted by Rogerman
The trick is to make her know that you respect her and dont think of her as a slut. And you just want to have fun.

Now how you do that exactly, I dont know.
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Why do you post things you don't even know how to do them? :(
 
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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Why do you post things you don't even know how to do them? :(
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Because like most on these boards, he's a keyboard jockey
 
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Originally posted by Rogerman
The trick is to make her know that you respect her and dont think of her as a slut. And you just want to have fun.

Now how you do that exactly, I dont know.
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If anyone can explain how to do this in words, I'm all ears, lol.
 
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hmmm...

tell her you like to see her again in the future so she doesn't think it was a ONS, or tell her to cook you breakfast, she'll understand ;) :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lol I really like that term 'keyboard jockey' it's pretty funny.
 
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