"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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One more question on another text I received.

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I set up a date with a tinder chick. I show up at the bar and text her that I am there. She has been texting me throughout the day. She then calls me and says that we agreed to a later time and says that she will be an hour late. I told her that we agreed on the time I was there and I wasn't waiting for her to get a ss to the bar. Then I told her maybe some other time and hung up.

So about two weeks later I try to set up another date via text. I hear from her about 5 hours later. She calls me on the phone and apologizes and wants to go out. I told her I was busy and would try to set up a date when I was free.

Anyway I have had better options and haven't contacted her for another two weeks. She texts me a picture of a bottle on a window sill. What is up with that?

I just ignored the text because I have better options. How should I respond? I have ignored it for two days now.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hit her back with a picture of one the following.


If you choose the Wrigley Field picture, be sure it's the one without the Jumbotron above the left field bleachers.

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Maximus Rex said:
Hit her back with a picture of one the following.


If you choose the Wrigley Field picture, be sure it's the one without the Jumbotron above the left field bleachers.

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hahhahaha holy **** Rex.

dustmuffin friend, you don't even like this girl, you just got interested because of the weirdness of the pic she sent you. So either ignore it, or respond something like "what, have you been saving that bottle all this time just for me?".
 
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CuddleJunkie said:
hahhahaha holy sh*t Rex.

So either ignore it, or respond something like "what, have you been saving that bottle all this time just for me?".
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Rex disagrees because your response implies neediness. C&F responses only work when the chick is interested.
 
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Maximus Rex said:
Rex disagrees because your response implies neediness. C&F responses only work when the chick is interested.
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In my opinion she's interested after dustmuffin said her to fvck off when she "forgot" the correct hour. The one that is not interested is our Juan, he was not giving a fvck until the chick sent that weird-ass text.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CuddleJunkie said:
In my opinion she's interested after dustmuffin said her to fvck off when she "forgot" the correct hour. The one that is not interested is our Juan, he was not giving a fvck until the chick sent that weird-ass text.
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Who is Juan? I live in the bario I might know him....;)
 
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CuddleJunkie said:
hahhahaha holy **** Rex.

dustmuffin friend, you don't even like this girl, you just got interested because of the weirdness of the pic she sent you. So either ignore it, or respond something like "what, have you been saving that bottle all this time just for me?".
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I still might try to set up a date. Depends on my options. It won't happen this week because I have three lined up already. That is more than enough. I think I will text wrigley field just to mess with her.
 
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All right Wrigley field has been sent
No reply.......
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maximus Rex said:
Why are you expecting/and or waiting on one?
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Wasn't expecting one. Just an update for the thread. I may text her next week. Maybe not....It always seems that I have better options. She missed her chance.......
 
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A picture of a bottle on a window sill is a HUGE IOI. I get that all the time...

Women communicate covertly. The correct reply is a picture of a basket of fruit, or if that's too forward, perhaps a picture of a bicycle leaning up against a wall.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Atom Smasher said:
A picture of a bottle on a window sill is a HUGE IOI. I get that all the time...

Women communicate covertly. The correct reply is a picture of a basket of fruit, or if that's too forward, perhaps a picture of a bicycle leaning up against a wall.
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Why would a pic of a bottle indicate interest?
 
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Just an update....sent her a date invite and she answered positively quickly. Will update after date.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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