"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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One more question on another text I received.

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I set up a date with a tinder chick. I show up at the bar and text her that I am there. She has been texting me throughout the day. She then calls me and says that we agreed to a later time and says that she will be an hour late. I told her that we agreed on the time I was there and I wasn't waiting for her to get a ss to the bar. Then I told her maybe some other time and hung up.

So about two weeks later I try to set up another date via text. I hear from her about 5 hours later. She calls me on the phone and apologizes and wants to go out. I told her I was busy and would try to set up a date when I was free.

Anyway I have had better options and haven't contacted her for another two weeks. She texts me a picture of a bottle on a window sill. What is up with that?

I just ignored the text because I have better options. How should I respond? I have ignored it for two days now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hit her back with a picture of one the following.


If you choose the Wrigley Field picture, be sure it's the one without the Jumbotron above the left field bleachers.

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Hit her back with a picture of one the following.


If you choose the Wrigley Field picture, be sure it's the one without the Jumbotron above the left field bleachers.

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hahhahaha holy **** Rex.

dustmuffin friend, you don't even like this girl, you just got interested because of the weirdness of the pic she sent you. So either ignore it, or respond something like "what, have you been saving that bottle all this time just for me?".
 

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hahhahaha holy sh*t Rex.

So either ignore it, or respond something like "what, have you been saving that bottle all this time just for me?".
Rex disagrees because your response implies neediness. C&F responses only work when the chick is interested.
 

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Rex disagrees because your response implies neediness. C&F responses only work when the chick is interested.
In my opinion she's interested after dustmuffin said her to fvck off when she "forgot" the correct hour. The one that is not interested is our Juan, he was not giving a fvck until the chick sent that weird-ass text.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In my opinion she's interested after dustmuffin said her to fvck off when she "forgot" the correct hour. The one that is not interested is our Juan, he was not giving a fvck until the chick sent that weird-ass text.
Who is Juan? I live in the bario I might know him....;)
 

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hahhahaha holy **** Rex.

dustmuffin friend, you don't even like this girl, you just got interested because of the weirdness of the pic she sent you. So either ignore it, or respond something like "what, have you been saving that bottle all this time just for me?".
I still might try to set up a date. Depends on my options. It won't happen this week because I have three lined up already. That is more than enough. I think I will text wrigley field just to mess with her.
 

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All right Wrigley field has been sent
No reply.......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why are you expecting/and or waiting on one?
Wasn't expecting one. Just an update for the thread. I may text her next week. Maybe not....It always seems that I have better options. She missed her chance.......
 

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A picture of a bottle on a window sill is a HUGE IOI. I get that all the time...

Women communicate covertly. The correct reply is a picture of a basket of fruit, or if that's too forward, perhaps a picture of a bicycle leaning up against a wall.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A picture of a bottle on a window sill is a HUGE IOI. I get that all the time...

Women communicate covertly. The correct reply is a picture of a basket of fruit, or if that's too forward, perhaps a picture of a bicycle leaning up against a wall.
Why would a pic of a bottle indicate interest?
 

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Just an update....sent her a date invite and she answered positively quickly. Will update after date.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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