"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I set up a date with a tinder chick. I show up at the bar and text her that I am there. She has been texting me throughout the day. She then calls me and says that we agreed to a later time and says that she will be an hour late. I told her that we agreed on the time I was there and I wasn't waiting for her to get a ss to the bar. Then I told her maybe some other time and hung up.

So about two weeks later I try to set up another date via text. I hear from her about 5 hours later. She calls me on the phone and apologizes and wants to go out. I told her I was busy and would try to set up a date when I was free.

Anyway I have had better options and haven't contacted her for another two weeks. She texts me a picture of a bottle on a window sill. What is up with that?

I just ignored the text because I have better options. How should I respond? I have ignored it for two days now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hit her back with a picture of one the following.


If you choose the Wrigley Field picture, be sure it's the one without the Jumbotron above the left field bleachers.

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Maximus Rex said:
Hit her back with a picture of one the following.


If you choose the Wrigley Field picture, be sure it's the one without the Jumbotron above the left field bleachers.

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hahhahaha holy **** Rex.

dustmuffin friend, you don't even like this girl, you just got interested because of the weirdness of the pic she sent you. So either ignore it, or respond something like "what, have you been saving that bottle all this time just for me?".
 
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CuddleJunkie said:
hahhahaha holy sh*t Rex.

So either ignore it, or respond something like "what, have you been saving that bottle all this time just for me?".
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Rex disagrees because your response implies neediness. C&F responses only work when the chick is interested.
 
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Maximus Rex said:
Rex disagrees because your response implies neediness. C&F responses only work when the chick is interested.
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In my opinion she's interested after dustmuffin said her to fvck off when she "forgot" the correct hour. The one that is not interested is our Juan, he was not giving a fvck until the chick sent that weird-ass text.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CuddleJunkie said:
In my opinion she's interested after dustmuffin said her to fvck off when she "forgot" the correct hour. The one that is not interested is our Juan, he was not giving a fvck until the chick sent that weird-ass text.
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Who is Juan? I live in the bario I might know him....;)
 
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CuddleJunkie said:
hahhahaha holy **** Rex.

dustmuffin friend, you don't even like this girl, you just got interested because of the weirdness of the pic she sent you. So either ignore it, or respond something like "what, have you been saving that bottle all this time just for me?".
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I still might try to set up a date. Depends on my options. It won't happen this week because I have three lined up already. That is more than enough. I think I will text wrigley field just to mess with her.
 
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All right Wrigley field has been sent
No reply.......
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maximus Rex said:
Why are you expecting/and or waiting on one?
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Wasn't expecting one. Just an update for the thread. I may text her next week. Maybe not....It always seems that I have better options. She missed her chance.......
 
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A picture of a bottle on a window sill is a HUGE IOI. I get that all the time...

Women communicate covertly. The correct reply is a picture of a basket of fruit, or if that's too forward, perhaps a picture of a bicycle leaning up against a wall.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Atom Smasher said:
A picture of a bottle on a window sill is a HUGE IOI. I get that all the time...

Women communicate covertly. The correct reply is a picture of a basket of fruit, or if that's too forward, perhaps a picture of a bicycle leaning up against a wall.
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Why would a pic of a bottle indicate interest?
 
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Just an update....sent her a date invite and she answered positively quickly. Will update after date.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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