One More Meeting Before Break

[NewAndImproved]

Met this HB7.5 a few weeks ago. We've hung out a few times since. Invited me up for a get together to celebrate end of finals. It's the last time we'll hang out before winter break. We haven't kissed. Should that be my goal? I see this more as a long term thing instead of just a hook up.

 

[Dannyrt34]

Never make these specific goals for dates. It will only put added pressure, since having this goal will make you constantly think about the kiss during the date. Then you'll be analyzing every thing that happens on the date thinking "Should I go for the kiss now?". If it's the last time you'll see each other before break, make it a goal to have a memorable impression.

Be in the moment for the date. If the opportunity for a kiss arises, DON'T PASS IT UP!

 

[crazymedstudent]

Never make these specific goals for dates. It will only put added pressure, since having this goal will make you constantly think about the kiss during the date. Then you'll be analyzing every thing that happens on the date thinking "Should I go for the kiss now?". If it's the last time you'll see each other before break, make it a goal to have a memorable impression.

Be in the moment for the date. If the opportunity for a kiss arises, DON'T PASS IT UP!

I agree. You goal for any date is to have fun youself. Don't try to please the girl cause all girls can see past that BS. The best you can do is keep it light and fun and show her 'why' you are a fun guy. The rest should fall into place.

 

[brian123]

Never make these specific goals for dates. It will only put added pressure, since having this goal will make you constantly think about the kiss during the date. Then you'll be analyzing every thing that happens on the date thinking "Should I go for the kiss now?". If it's the last time you'll see each other before break, make it a goal to have a memorable impression.

Be in the moment for the date. If the opportunity for a kiss arises, DON'T PASS IT UP!

I totally agree. I just had a similar situation with a girl. I knew I would get to see her for a month or so, and she'd be going home to hang out with her sisters (who gossip). This girl and I hadnt kissed, so I just made it my goal to have a great time with her, and really do something fun.

We didn't end up kissing (I kind of just want her to to "want" the kiss) but I know I def made a lasting impression on her, and she had alot of fun. So I know she will go home and talk with her sisters about what we did and that will make me sound even better.

 

[Sandow]

She invited you, so that's good. How she see's you, we have no idea since we aren't there. So... there's only way to find out. Make a move, if she likes you then she'll be receptive to ur moves. If not, then she doesn't. Simple as that.