"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Met this HB7.5 a few weeks ago. We've hung out a few times since. Invited me up for a get together to celebrate end of finals. It's the last time we'll hang out before winter break. We haven't kissed. Should that be my goal? I see this more as a long term thing instead of just a hook up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Never make these specific goals for dates. It will only put added pressure, since having this goal will make you constantly think about the kiss during the date. Then you'll be analyzing every thing that happens on the date thinking "Should I go for the kiss now?". If it's the last time you'll see each other before break, make it a goal to have a memorable impression.

Be in the moment for the date. If the opportunity for a kiss arises, DON'T PASS IT UP!
 
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Dannyrt34 said:
Never make these specific goals for dates. It will only put added pressure, since having this goal will make you constantly think about the kiss during the date. Then you'll be analyzing every thing that happens on the date thinking "Should I go for the kiss now?". If it's the last time you'll see each other before break, make it a goal to have a memorable impression.

Be in the moment for the date. If the opportunity for a kiss arises, DON'T PASS IT UP!
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I agree. You goal for any date is to have fun youself. Don't try to please the girl cause all girls can see past that BS. The best you can do is keep it light and fun and show her 'why' you are a fun guy. The rest should fall into place.
 
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Dannyrt34 said:
Never make these specific goals for dates. It will only put added pressure, since having this goal will make you constantly think about the kiss during the date. Then you'll be analyzing every thing that happens on the date thinking "Should I go for the kiss now?". If it's the last time you'll see each other before break, make it a goal to have a memorable impression.

Be in the moment for the date. If the opportunity for a kiss arises, DON'T PASS IT UP!
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I totally agree. I just had a similar situation with a girl. I knew I would get to see her for a month or so, and she'd be going home to hang out with her sisters (who gossip). This girl and I hadnt kissed, so I just made it my goal to have a great time with her, and really do something fun.

We didn't end up kissing (I kind of just want her to to "want" the kiss) but I know I def made a lasting impression on her, and she had alot of fun. So I know she will go home and talk with her sisters about what we did and that will make me sound even better.
 
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She invited you, so that's good. How she see's you, we have no idea since we aren't there. So... there's only way to find out. Make a move, if she likes you then she'll be receptive to ur moves. If not, then she doesn't. Simple as that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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