"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LuckyDevil6

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You think rejection is bad?!?! come on now... if that happens, just move on to the next hot girl you see and stop being sucha wuss about it


shes probably interested in that other guy because hes out there with her, taking her out places and making her happy, instead of sitting on a website asking "does this chick like me??? what can i do to improve attraction???" you just gotta test the waters, and not worry about the outcome.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jonny football hero

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Mein Gott! rejection. Trust me, you get over it.

It's better to hear no than never no.
 

Limitless

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True thanks , I don't have her number now , if I get rejected I still I won't , so nothing has changed accept I will no longer have a flase hope . +)
 

Porky

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getting rid of oneitis is easy. don't give me any of that but-i-love-her-so-much-she's-just-so-perfect-for-me bull****.

I thought I might be in love with my best friend over the summer. There was nothing I could or wanted to do about it, the feelings were just there. I knew I wouldn't date her because the friendship was too important, and I didn't want to stop spending time with her in order to get over the feelings.

Did they subside on their own? no. did I do anything about them? no. She has a boyfriend who I think is a good guy, and I even told some of my friends to stay away from her because he was such a nice guy.

know what I did to get rid of it?

this is going to shock you.

I FVCKING MET OTHER GIRLS

crazy, I know. once school started up again, I met a great girl. then I forgot about her, because I met another. Then I forgot about her, because I met yet another. I realized I wasn't in love with her (I never fully admitted it, just feared it), I was just BORED because I wasn't out meeting people.

do you see where I'm going with this?
 
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