"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You think rejection is bad?!?! come on now... if that happens, just move on to the next hot girl you see and stop being sucha wuss about it


shes probably interested in that other guy because hes out there with her, taking her out places and making her happy, instead of sitting on a website asking "does this chick like me??? what can i do to improve attraction???" you just gotta test the waters, and not worry about the outcome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mein Gott! rejection. Trust me, you get over it.

It's better to hear no than never no.
 
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True thanks , I don't have her number now , if I get rejected I still I won't , so nothing has changed accept I will no longer have a flase hope . +)
 
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getting rid of oneitis is easy. don't give me any of that but-i-love-her-so-much-she's-just-so-perfect-for-me bull****.

I thought I might be in love with my best friend over the summer. There was nothing I could or wanted to do about it, the feelings were just there. I knew I wouldn't date her because the friendship was too important, and I didn't want to stop spending time with her in order to get over the feelings.

Did they subside on their own? no. did I do anything about them? no. She has a boyfriend who I think is a good guy, and I even told some of my friends to stay away from her because he was such a nice guy.

know what I did to get rid of it?

this is going to shock you.

I FVCKING MET OTHER GIRLS

crazy, I know. once school started up again, I met a great girl. then I forgot about her, because I met another. Then I forgot about her, because I met yet another. I realized I wasn't in love with her (I never fully admitted it, just feared it), I was just BORED because I wasn't out meeting people.

do you see where I'm going with this?
 
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