"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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One important fact about dating

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What is dating?
It is a temporary romantic agreement between two relative strangers who know only the basic facts about each other and who's intention is often to "test the waters"

therefore if you get LJBF the girl is ending this agreement.

when that happens there is no more agreement and you had best stop talking to her.

LJBF = END OF CONTRACT!

AFCs get that through your thick head! That is the first step to breaking the cycle of abuse that you put yourself through.

Sticking around when you have been LJBFed is like working for someone without getting paid.

You back away from this agreement just like you would any other agreement. You say thank you. If that person has more work for you (or rather the girl wants you again) then it is up to them to call you back.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LuJu BuFu








Let's Just Be Friends. or

Look, Just Beat it Freak or

Long Johns, Beef Franks
 

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would it not be a good idea tho to go ahead and keep her as a friend as social-proof? Surely there is a way you can make the best of it for little effort?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by 00Kevin

What is dating?
It is a temporary romantic agreement between two relative strangers who know only the basic facts about each other and who's intention is often to "test the waters"

therefore if you get LJBF the girl is ending this agreement.

when that happens there is no more agreement and you had best stop talking to her.

LJBF = END OF CONTRACT!

AFCs get that through your thick head! That is the first step to breaking the cycle of abuse that you put yourself through.

Sticking around when you have been LJBFed is like working for someone without getting paid.

You back away from this agreement just like you would any other agreement. You say thank you. If that person has more work for you (or rather the girl wants you again) then it is up to them to call you back.

Umm, no. How bout using the woman, if she's attractive, as a wing or pivot.
 

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wow kevin that's soooo deep and original. Don't you get
tired of posting the same obvious crap that we've heard from 100 different kbj's already today?
 

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Originally posted by smoke city
wow kevin that's soooo deep and original. Don't you get
tired of posting the same obvious crap that we've heard from 100 different kbj's already today?
I get tired of reading posts from people who don't even get what I just posted.
 

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Re: Re: One important fact about dating

Originally posted by bobbob
Umm, no. How bout using the woman, if she's attractive, as a wing or pivot.
regardless your interest should end in her and you should move on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by smoke city
wow kevin that's soooo deep and original. Don't you get
tired of posting the same obvious crap that we've heard from 100 different kbj's already today?
He's just trying to answer the same questino that we've heard from 100 guys who got LJBF'd already today...

his posts may seem obvious, but it's still a point missed by half the thread starters around here
 

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yea thats sound advice, and very true. But there is the also this arguement to consider:
girls talk to their mates all the time about guys and stuff, so if your just "friends" with a girl, you could find that you have an easier time getting into her mates.
 
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