"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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one-i-tis in a simple form

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when you play the role of her BF.

and you get ZERO physical action.


2 yrs ago.

I met this girl.

ended up talking to her FOR 9 MONTHS!

I GOT 1 drunk kiss

talked to her everyday for 9 months....

while im sure she was banging other guys,

thats why I came to SS.com

thats one I TIS

if you are getting laid you dont have it.


if u arent gettign any..get out! get out NOW!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey I will admit regardless of what happens...my women is one of the best people ive ever met.

I wish everyone could find a good person for them.



I suppose ONE I TIS...would be anytime your feelings for her are stronger than hers for u
 

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Dude, when you two breakup I wanna see a detailed report on what happens
 

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Originally posted by spider_007

on the serious note, what does it really stand for, does anybody know????

what is a clear defention.
Same as "love". Its the belief that one cvnt is "unique" and differs from the next.

Originally posted by frivolousz21

if you are getting laid you dont have it.
Is this your lame attempt to save face after the sh!t you smeared everywhere here before?

Btw your declarations of love , crying sessions , displays of captainsaveahoery and general cluelessness aside, your definition of what it isnt clearly indicates that you suffer from it.

:rolleyes: P.lover, Player supreme and crowes banned yet this crap gets free reign.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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haha...I was gonna be civil with you.

but your just a sad sad man.


I really feeel bad for you guys.....really do
 

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Dude, when you two breakup I wanna see a detailed report on what happens
Because I can have a serious LTR....we are gonan break up.

I dont understand your logic.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
Because I can have a serious LTR....we are gonan break up.

I dont understand your logic.
Serious "LTR" ?? Are you even over the 4 month mark yet with your current oneitis or what?

And why are you always trying to push down our throats that unless we find an "LTR" we cant be as happy as you? You must have some serious self esteem issues if the only way YOU can find happiness is to have a steady girlfriend. Heres a newsflash for you douche, alot of us can get all the pros minus the cons from chicks WITHOUT being in what you call a LTR.
 

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alot of us can get all the pros minus the cons from chicks WITHOUT being in what you call a LTR.


i call having someone give u anything u want...a ltr mnot one i tis.


with ur logic, u have more one i tis with ur women than me.


but as u know we cant argue..case closed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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