"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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one-i-tis in a simple form

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when you play the role of her BF.

and you get ZERO physical action.


2 yrs ago.

I met this girl.

ended up talking to her FOR 9 MONTHS!

I GOT 1 drunk kiss

talked to her everyday for 9 months....

while im sure she was banging other guys,

thats why I came to SS.com

thats one I TIS

if you are getting laid you dont have it.


if u arent gettign any..get out! get out NOW!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey I will admit regardless of what happens...my women is one of the best people ive ever met.

I wish everyone could find a good person for them.



I suppose ONE I TIS...would be anytime your feelings for her are stronger than hers for u
 

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Dude, when you two breakup I wanna see a detailed report on what happens
 

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Originally posted by spider_007

on the serious note, what does it really stand for, does anybody know????

what is a clear defention.
Same as "love". Its the belief that one cvnt is "unique" and differs from the next.

Originally posted by frivolousz21

if you are getting laid you dont have it.
Is this your lame attempt to save face after the sh!t you smeared everywhere here before?

Btw your declarations of love , crying sessions , displays of captainsaveahoery and general cluelessness aside, your definition of what it isnt clearly indicates that you suffer from it.

:rolleyes: P.lover, Player supreme and crowes banned yet this crap gets free reign.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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haha...I was gonna be civil with you.

but your just a sad sad man.


I really feeel bad for you guys.....really do
 

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Dude, when you two breakup I wanna see a detailed report on what happens
Because I can have a serious LTR....we are gonan break up.

I dont understand your logic.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
Because I can have a serious LTR....we are gonan break up.

I dont understand your logic.
Serious "LTR" ?? Are you even over the 4 month mark yet with your current oneitis or what?

And why are you always trying to push down our throats that unless we find an "LTR" we cant be as happy as you? You must have some serious self esteem issues if the only way YOU can find happiness is to have a steady girlfriend. Heres a newsflash for you douche, alot of us can get all the pros minus the cons from chicks WITHOUT being in what you call a LTR.
 

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alot of us can get all the pros minus the cons from chicks WITHOUT being in what you call a LTR.


i call having someone give u anything u want...a ltr mnot one i tis.


with ur logic, u have more one i tis with ur women than me.


but as u know we cant argue..case closed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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