"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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one-i-tis in a simple form

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when you play the role of her BF.

and you get ZERO physical action.


2 yrs ago.

I met this girl.

ended up talking to her FOR 9 MONTHS!

I GOT 1 drunk kiss

talked to her everyday for 9 months....

while im sure she was banging other guys,

thats why I came to SS.com

thats one I TIS

if you are getting laid you dont have it.


if u arent gettign any..get out! get out NOW!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey I will admit regardless of what happens...my women is one of the best people ive ever met.

I wish everyone could find a good person for them.



I suppose ONE I TIS...would be anytime your feelings for her are stronger than hers for u
 

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Dude, when you two breakup I wanna see a detailed report on what happens
 

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Originally posted by spider_007

on the serious note, what does it really stand for, does anybody know????

what is a clear defention.
Same as "love". Its the belief that one cvnt is "unique" and differs from the next.

Originally posted by frivolousz21

if you are getting laid you dont have it.
Is this your lame attempt to save face after the sh!t you smeared everywhere here before?

Btw your declarations of love , crying sessions , displays of captainsaveahoery and general cluelessness aside, your definition of what it isnt clearly indicates that you suffer from it.

:rolleyes: P.lover, Player supreme and crowes banned yet this crap gets free reign.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha...I was gonna be civil with you.

but your just a sad sad man.


I really feeel bad for you guys.....really do
 

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Dude, when you two breakup I wanna see a detailed report on what happens
Because I can have a serious LTR....we are gonan break up.

I dont understand your logic.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
Because I can have a serious LTR....we are gonan break up.

I dont understand your logic.
Serious "LTR" ?? Are you even over the 4 month mark yet with your current oneitis or what?

And why are you always trying to push down our throats that unless we find an "LTR" we cant be as happy as you? You must have some serious self esteem issues if the only way YOU can find happiness is to have a steady girlfriend. Heres a newsflash for you douche, alot of us can get all the pros minus the cons from chicks WITHOUT being in what you call a LTR.
 

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alot of us can get all the pros minus the cons from chicks WITHOUT being in what you call a LTR.


i call having someone give u anything u want...a ltr mnot one i tis.


with ur logic, u have more one i tis with ur women than me.


but as u know we cant argue..case closed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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