"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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One hundred pushup challenge!

Al Moh.

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I did the first part yesterday (monday), wasn't difficult to do, I'm doing a lot of sports so this should get interesting maybe next or third week.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Week 1, Day 2

Good to see I'm not alone Al Moh. I was considering not even posting my results since I thought I was doing this by myself.

Day 2

rest 90 seconds between each level (longer if required)

level 1 4

level 2 3

level 3 2

level 4 2

level 5 max (at least 4)

I've noticed slight improvement since Sunday. My strength seems to have to increased a little bit. I was able to complete the first 2 sets but struggled on the last 3. I did some push ups from my knees afterwards to make up for it. More than likely I will have to repeat this week NEXT week.
 

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Count me in!
Did the initial test right now with barely 30... I'll try to give you a weekly update!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Week1 Day 2

12
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13 (hard^^)

Was still a little bit worn out from yesterday (running arround all day long).
 

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Week 1 Day 3

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1

I couldn't even come close to finishing my last set. It's a bit discouraging. But you have to remember where I'm starting out from. At the beginning of the week, I weighed myself. I was 280. I'm skinny except for my big belly but I have arms like wet noodles. That's a lot of weight for wet noodles to push off the floor.

But for what it's worth, I dropped 4 pounds this week and I think I have made progress though it may not seem like it yet. You have to remember that I'm doing cardio, either running or walking every day and I am now eating a healthier diet. The key is to take it ONE WEEK at a time. To me, this isn't the 100 push up challenge, it's the 'week 1 push up challenge'. Once I graduate from week 1, THEN I'll worry about week 2. Anyway, I'm definitely starting again on week 1 on Sunday. I WILL NOT give up!

Also, for anyone who is interested. Here's the ab workout that I'm starting today. I'm going to do it 3 times weekly on the same days I do push ups.

http://www.skippypodar.net/Fitness/abs2000.html
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To the people doing 100 burpies (real ross burpies): You are all madmen!

Even thinking about doing that many in a short time span makes me feel like hurling. It's up there with hillsprints in my 'least favorite things' list.
 

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Truman181 said:
Week 1 Day 3

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I couldn't even come close to finishing my last set. It's a bit discouraging. But you have to remember where I'm starting out from. At the beginning of the week, I weighed myself. I was 280. I'm skinny except for my big belly but I have arms like wet noodles. That's a lot of weight for wet noodles to push off the floor.

But for what it's worth, I dropped 4 pounds this week and I think I have made progress though it may not seem like it yet. You have to remember that I'm doing cardio, either running or walking every day and I am now eating a healthier diet. The key is to take it ONE WEEK at a time. To me, this isn't the 100 push up challenge, it's the 'week 1 push up challenge'. Once I graduate from week 1, THEN I'll worry about week 2. Anyway, I'm definitely starting again on week 1 on Sunday. I WILL NOT give up!
You're the man - when you finish the challenge, you'll be infinitely proud of yourself - and with good reason!
Don't let yourself be discouraged by those guys who seem to have an easy time - remember that you're doing about twice the work they do!
 

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So anyone tried the Perfect Push up? Supposedly it makes it easier on the wrists and well....my wrists are a bit sore after this week...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'll get in on this. Just got 36 as my initial test, so this could be interesting.

Best of luck guys (and any gals in here.)
 

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reminds me of Matt Furey's stuff, exercises without weights does increase your core strength and goes to show you don't need a weight room or even to go to the gym to exercise!
 

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If those are real burpies with the push up i'm really impressed! I do them pretty regularly but never hit 100, my coach generally throws them in at the end of a training session to make us throw up.
 

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Finished week 1 with 15-13-10-10-25.
Feeling good so far. Think I'm already seeing an increase :)
 

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Week 2, (Repeat week 1 work out, day 1)

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Progress! Last week I was only able to do the first 2 sets. This week I didn't make the max push up on the final set (3) but I definitely have improved over last week. I may have to repeat week 1 one more time next week before finally moving on to week two. But that is okay, it's a marathon, not a sprint. I'm making progress...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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