"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
One FANTASTIC Night
- Thread starter Paid Laid & Made
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Paid Laid & Made
Senior Don Juan
Look back at my prior threads. I have extensively dealt with my EX and engaged in the worst situations known on this board. I ask for trouble every single time, I post.
A normal DJ would not touch anything like this ... you know why? Because its a steaming pile of $hit with a side order of trouble. This cannot lead anywhere except a huge fight and people's feelings being messed with.
I am considering wether to jump ship due to your guyses posts.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
Dog, chill out, he has been here for 2 months.Originally posted by Barbillus
PLM. You have AFC written all over you.
If most of you had your sh!t together as much as he has for 2 months this site would be a much better place?
is he AFC?
yea maybe a little,ready my SIGNATURE, but so what? Everyone has to start somewhere.
Can you not see that he is, look at all the rules he is applying.Go read the DJ Bible.
yes, with time, if he uses them correctly he will learn the point and understanding for the rule and can move on from it.
yes, some of us are while others just claim to.We are here to help you.
that is why a DJ/Man doesn't get involved with stuff like that, he doesn't try to cause trobule like this when he knows that there are better women around. This is what i was trying to preach to you, PL&M earlier on, and possibly in other posts.[B ]PAID LAID & MADE: A normal DJ would not touch anything like this ... you know why? Because its a steaming pile of $hit with a side order of trouble. This cannot lead anywhere except a huge fight and people's feelings being messed with. [/B]
Paid Laid & Made
Senior Don Juan
I know, me staying away from situations like these is vital. The saddest part is that I am very aware of my current situation and do not want to keep getting myself in these predicaments.
I liked this girl since I met her, but I was dating my EX and could not make it known. The both of the became very tight after our breakup and she vented to my girl. I made it known that I was interested and got involved in drinking to hook up with her ...
Now, I have to keep everything we do a secret. We seem to have chemistry. I know we have things in common and enjoy hanging out (sober). Still I am not sure if this is the kind of situation which is just not meant to be.
I have no intentions of hurting my EX's feelings, because if I learned one thing its not to bottle up your hatred and go lashing out, because nothing will get solved that way. If I am faced with the situation of choosing between her or my EX's staying friends with her I will gladly walk away. I have lots of good memories and do not want any of this damaging their relationship.
As for right now. Tonight I will spend more time with her, getting to know her and hopefully get a little closer with her. I am cutting booze out, It only lead to problems. I will see if she has problems with alcohol, even though I do not believe she does. If this is the case, I am once again leaving this situation as I am right now focusing on my life and I seriously do not want to be involved with someone having emotional baggage.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Paid Laid & Made
Senior Don Juan
I try my best. This girl really digs me and wants to spend more time, she is defintitely not just the partying type and wants an LTR. I am more then willing to give her a shot, I have not asked her to be my GF yet. Still checking out the situation.