"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
One FANTASTIC Night
- Thread starter Paid Laid & Made
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Paid Laid & Made
Senior Don Juan
Look back at my prior threads. I have extensively dealt with my EX and engaged in the worst situations known on this board. I ask for trouble every single time, I post.
A normal DJ would not touch anything like this ... you know why? Because its a steaming pile of $hit with a side order of trouble. This cannot lead anywhere except a huge fight and people's feelings being messed with.
I am considering wether to jump ship due to your guyses posts.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
Dog, chill out, he has been here for 2 months.Originally posted by Barbillus
PLM. You have AFC written all over you.
If most of you had your sh!t together as much as he has for 2 months this site would be a much better place?
is he AFC?
yea maybe a little,ready my SIGNATURE, but so what? Everyone has to start somewhere.
Can you not see that he is, look at all the rules he is applying.Go read the DJ Bible.
yes, with time, if he uses them correctly he will learn the point and understanding for the rule and can move on from it.
yes, some of us are while others just claim to.We are here to help you.
that is why a DJ/Man doesn't get involved with stuff like that, he doesn't try to cause trobule like this when he knows that there are better women around. This is what i was trying to preach to you, PL&M earlier on, and possibly in other posts.[B ]PAID LAID & MADE: A normal DJ would not touch anything like this ... you know why? Because its a steaming pile of $hit with a side order of trouble. This cannot lead anywhere except a huge fight and people's feelings being messed with. [/B]
Paid Laid & Made
Senior Don Juan
I know, me staying away from situations like these is vital. The saddest part is that I am very aware of my current situation and do not want to keep getting myself in these predicaments.
I liked this girl since I met her, but I was dating my EX and could not make it known. The both of the became very tight after our breakup and she vented to my girl. I made it known that I was interested and got involved in drinking to hook up with her ...
Now, I have to keep everything we do a secret. We seem to have chemistry. I know we have things in common and enjoy hanging out (sober). Still I am not sure if this is the kind of situation which is just not meant to be.
I have no intentions of hurting my EX's feelings, because if I learned one thing its not to bottle up your hatred and go lashing out, because nothing will get solved that way. If I am faced with the situation of choosing between her or my EX's staying friends with her I will gladly walk away. I have lots of good memories and do not want any of this damaging their relationship.
As for right now. Tonight I will spend more time with her, getting to know her and hopefully get a little closer with her. I am cutting booze out, It only lead to problems. I will see if she has problems with alcohol, even though I do not believe she does. If this is the case, I am once again leaving this situation as I am right now focusing on my life and I seriously do not want to be involved with someone having emotional baggage.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Paid Laid & Made
Senior Don Juan
I try my best. This girl really digs me and wants to spend more time, she is defintitely not just the partying type and wants an LTR. I am more then willing to give her a shot, I have not asked her to be my GF yet. Still checking out the situation.