"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i have oneitis for a girl and its driving me nuts, she likes one of my friends and he doesnt like her back well not anymore and he is really muscular and im just a skinny kid thats working out trying to get big and i cant get her outta my head, i talk to her on aim but i always supplicate to her and say nice things, even in skool and skools over!! ITS SUMMER!!!!!!!! and i know she probably doesnt like me so idk wut to do, i need her out of my head!! and i need some tips for aim cuz i always say nice things, and i want to know how to get her to start the conversation instead of me always IM'ing her so we could start talking
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ectomorph said:
i have oneitis for a girl and its driving me nuts, she likes one of my friends and he doesnt like her back well not anymore and he is really muscular
Read the bold parts.

and i cant get her outta my head, i talk to her on aim but i always supplicate to her and say nice things, even in skool and skools over!! ITS SUMMER!!!!!!!! and i know she probably doesnt like me so idk wut to do, i need her out of my head!! and i need some tips for aim cuz i always say nice things, and i want to know how to get her to start the conversation instead of me always IM'ing her so we could start talking
Stop talking to her, ignore her, and talk to some other women. Go out and meet them. You actually have to do that if you want to improve at all. You can't improve by reading internet forums and thinking.
 
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