"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i have oneitis for a girl and its driving me nuts, she likes one of my friends and he doesnt like her back well not anymore and he is really muscular and im just a skinny kid thats working out trying to get big and i cant get her outta my head, i talk to her on aim but i always supplicate to her and say nice things, even in skool and skools over!! ITS SUMMER!!!!!!!! and i know she probably doesnt like me so idk wut to do, i need her out of my head!! and i need some tips for aim cuz i always say nice things, and i want to know how to get her to start the conversation instead of me always IM'ing her so we could start talking
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ectomorph said:
i have oneitis for a girl and its driving me nuts, she likes one of my friends and he doesnt like her back well not anymore and he is really muscular
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Read the bold parts.

and i cant get her outta my head, i talk to her on aim but i always supplicate to her and say nice things, even in skool and skools over!! ITS SUMMER!!!!!!!! and i know she probably doesnt like me so idk wut to do, i need her out of my head!! and i need some tips for aim cuz i always say nice things, and i want to know how to get her to start the conversation instead of me always IM'ing her so we could start talking
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Stop talking to her, ignore her, and talk to some other women. Go out and meet them. You actually have to do that if you want to improve at all. You can't improve by reading internet forums and thinking.
 
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