"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i have oneitis for a girl and its driving me nuts, she likes one of my friends and he doesnt like her back well not anymore and he is really muscular and im just a skinny kid thats working out trying to get big and i cant get her outta my head, i talk to her on aim but i always supplicate to her and say nice things, even in skool and skools over!! ITS SUMMER!!!!!!!! and i know she probably doesnt like me so idk wut to do, i need her out of my head!! and i need some tips for aim cuz i always say nice things, and i want to know how to get her to start the conversation instead of me always IM'ing her so we could start talking
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ectomorph said:
i have oneitis for a girl and its driving me nuts, she likes one of my friends and he doesnt like her back well not anymore and he is really muscular
Read the bold parts.

and i cant get her outta my head, i talk to her on aim but i always supplicate to her and say nice things, even in skool and skools over!! ITS SUMMER!!!!!!!! and i know she probably doesnt like me so idk wut to do, i need her out of my head!! and i need some tips for aim cuz i always say nice things, and i want to know how to get her to start the conversation instead of me always IM'ing her so we could start talking
Stop talking to her, ignore her, and talk to some other women. Go out and meet them. You actually have to do that if you want to improve at all. You can't improve by reading internet forums and thinking.
 
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