One big mistake I see lots of men doing....

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan

Jul 6, 2018

BondJamesBond424 said:
There are 2 points of not buying her stuff...

1. If you don't buy her dinners, expensive trips, gifts, you could even throw in flowers, whatever... If she REALLY likes you it won't faze her that you're not paying her way or buying her stuff. It's a sort of a male **** test.
If she REALLY is into you she will seek to be with you without you spending money on her.

2. It flushes out the users, the dinner users, attention seekers.

We don't just withhold gifts and paying for stuff for her for no reason. There is solid reasoning behind it.

AMS advocate a first date of a single drink. That's to establish interest.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.