holy ****.. this day could not have started any worse. First i go to drop off a resume at this car-lot. I was there ther other day and the secretary was ugly and i chatted her up for a bit. Then today i go back to tal kto the manager and this smoking HB8 was working.. i could barely even mutter out words to her and then the manage comes over and im almost positive i made a **** of myself by mumbling and have 0 confidence. To top if off on the way home, i see a smashed up car and think of my ex-gf (major one-itis still..over a year after our relationship ended), cuz we were in a huge crash together. Wait though, it gets better... I acually see her driving on my way home and I just started to feel sick to my stomach and i've been thinking bout her for the last 45 min straight. Man this has to end, I absolutly must learn to talk to people to acheive what i want...Girls,Jobs... everything... Im Lost...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
on the verge of a meltdown
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