"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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on the verge of a meltdown

Prestige

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holy ****.. this day could not have started any worse. First i go to drop off a resume at this car-lot. I was there ther other day and the secretary was ugly and i chatted her up for a bit. Then today i go back to tal kto the manager and this smoking HB8 was working.. i could barely even mutter out words to her and then the manage comes over and im almost positive i made a **** of myself by mumbling and have 0 confidence. To top if off on the way home, i see a smashed up car and think of my ex-gf (major one-itis still..over a year after our relationship ended), cuz we were in a huge crash together. Wait though, it gets better... I acually see her driving on my way home and I just started to feel sick to my stomach and i've been thinking bout her for the last 45 min straight. Man this has to end, I absolutly must learn to talk to people to acheive what i want...Girls,Jobs... everything... Im Lost...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girlsarecrazy

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I'm sure once you find another girl and start having sex with her. You will not think of your ex-gf again.

I'm still in your position because my ex is the last person i had sex with..
 

Prestige

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girlsarecrazy.. kind of a personal question here. Since the last time i had sex my ex, ive ****ed with about 3 other girls and man i am a mess. I go crazy and last like 3 seconds.. I used to own the show when it was me and her [ex] and now man i get soo godamn nervous and self-concious. This happen to you? or anybody else for that matter?
 
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