"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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On Staying Scarce

randomshinichi

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I just read this:
http://www.rsdnation.com/ryan®/blog/its-girlfriend-season
I thought an integral part of keeping a girl interested in you was staying scarce?
Then again, one would have more to talk about with girlfriends rather than ONS, wouldn't they?
Staying scarce then shouldn't work for married couples/couples - there's got to be other ways to keep the sexual attraction there... any thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AAAgent

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i actually did this without even knowing for my ex. our schedules didn't work out and i only met her once at a club.

it got to the point where she would text me and ask me about my classes daily and when we didn't text it felt really weird.

Now that i think back on the situation, since i was unaware i think that was the only reason why it felt really weird not to talk to her for a whole day. It will probably be different if you're conscious of what you're doing.
 
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