"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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On Staying Scarce

randomshinichi

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I just read this:
http://www.rsdnation.com/ryan®/blog/its-girlfriend-season
I thought an integral part of keeping a girl interested in you was staying scarce?
Then again, one would have more to talk about with girlfriends rather than ONS, wouldn't they?
Staying scarce then shouldn't work for married couples/couples - there's got to be other ways to keep the sexual attraction there... any thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AAAgent

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i actually did this without even knowing for my ex. our schedules didn't work out and i only met her once at a club.

it got to the point where she would text me and ask me about my classes daily and when we didn't text it felt really weird.

Now that i think back on the situation, since i was unaware i think that was the only reason why it felt really weird not to talk to her for a whole day. It will probably be different if you're conscious of what you're doing.
 
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