"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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On Staying Scarce

randomshinichi

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I just read this:
http://www.rsdnation.com/ryan®/blog/its-girlfriend-season
I thought an integral part of keeping a girl interested in you was staying scarce?
Then again, one would have more to talk about with girlfriends rather than ONS, wouldn't they?
Staying scarce then shouldn't work for married couples/couples - there's got to be other ways to keep the sexual attraction there... any thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AAAgent

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i actually did this without even knowing for my ex. our schedules didn't work out and i only met her once at a club.

it got to the point where she would text me and ask me about my classes daily and when we didn't text it felt really weird.

Now that i think back on the situation, since i was unaware i think that was the only reason why it felt really weird not to talk to her for a whole day. It will probably be different if you're conscious of what you're doing.
 
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