"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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On Staying Scarce

randomshinichi

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I just read this:
http://www.rsdnation.com/ryan®/blog/its-girlfriend-season
I thought an integral part of keeping a girl interested in you was staying scarce?
Then again, one would have more to talk about with girlfriends rather than ONS, wouldn't they?
Staying scarce then shouldn't work for married couples/couples - there's got to be other ways to keep the sexual attraction there... any thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AAAgent

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i actually did this without even knowing for my ex. our schedules didn't work out and i only met her once at a club.

it got to the point where she would text me and ask me about my classes daily and when we didn't text it felt really weird.

Now that i think back on the situation, since i was unaware i think that was the only reason why it felt really weird not to talk to her for a whole day. It will probably be different if you're conscious of what you're doing.
 
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