"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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On showing interest to a girl ....

rgeere

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I'm just wondering what everyones views are on actually showing open interest to a girl. How often or not that it should be done or at all.

I normally just screw with girls that are interested in me. I'll act interested enough in them to give them a taste of me then go cold on them. Doesn't work on all girls, but enough of them anyways.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LuckyStrike

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IMO you should let her know initially that you are interested but not overtly. Give her some eye contact, be a little C&F or what ever your style is, then back off. I like to do this, and then see what they do next. Never show to much interest, less tends be better. Think about it, just about every average to hot-looking woman out there is getting shown interest from men on a daily basis. Why be like every other guy? Stand apart from the rest and show them that you are the PRIZE to be had.
 

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Originally posted by LuckyStrike
IMO you should let her know initially that you are interested but not overtly. Give her some eye contact, be a little C&F or what ever your style is, then back off. I like to do this, and then see what they do next. Never show to much interest, less tends be better. Think about it, just about every average to hot-looking woman out there is getting shown interest from men on a daily basis. Why be like every other guy? Stand apart from the rest and show them that you are the PRIZE to be had.
Just be sure you find the right median between the being hard to get and no interest.
 
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