"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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On showing interest to a girl ....

rgeere

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I'm just wondering what everyones views are on actually showing open interest to a girl. How often or not that it should be done or at all.

I normally just screw with girls that are interested in me. I'll act interested enough in them to give them a taste of me then go cold on them. Doesn't work on all girls, but enough of them anyways.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LuckyStrike

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IMO you should let her know initially that you are interested but not overtly. Give her some eye contact, be a little C&F or what ever your style is, then back off. I like to do this, and then see what they do next. Never show to much interest, less tends be better. Think about it, just about every average to hot-looking woman out there is getting shown interest from men on a daily basis. Why be like every other guy? Stand apart from the rest and show them that you are the PRIZE to be had.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by LuckyStrike
IMO you should let her know initially that you are interested but not overtly. Give her some eye contact, be a little C&F or what ever your style is, then back off. I like to do this, and then see what they do next. Never show to much interest, less tends be better. Think about it, just about every average to hot-looking woman out there is getting shown interest from men on a daily basis. Why be like every other guy? Stand apart from the rest and show them that you are the PRIZE to be had.
Just be sure you find the right median between the being hard to get and no interest.
 
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