"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On showing interest to a girl ....

rgeere

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I'm just wondering what everyones views are on actually showing open interest to a girl. How often or not that it should be done or at all.

I normally just screw with girls that are interested in me. I'll act interested enough in them to give them a taste of me then go cold on them. Doesn't work on all girls, but enough of them anyways.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LuckyStrike

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IMO you should let her know initially that you are interested but not overtly. Give her some eye contact, be a little C&F or what ever your style is, then back off. I like to do this, and then see what they do next. Never show to much interest, less tends be better. Think about it, just about every average to hot-looking woman out there is getting shown interest from men on a daily basis. Why be like every other guy? Stand apart from the rest and show them that you are the PRIZE to be had.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by LuckyStrike
IMO you should let her know initially that you are interested but not overtly. Give her some eye contact, be a little C&F or what ever your style is, then back off. I like to do this, and then see what they do next. Never show to much interest, less tends be better. Think about it, just about every average to hot-looking woman out there is getting shown interest from men on a daily basis. Why be like every other guy? Stand apart from the rest and show them that you are the PRIZE to be had.
Just be sure you find the right median between the being hard to get and no interest.
 
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