"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey I've been on this site for quite some time now and have been through the bad and the good and now i can truely say I've benefitted and had my share of women; however, I do have one questions for the truely gifted donjuans here. I have tremendous success when first meeting women, but keeping that spark and that same mindset over a period of time with the same chick is, for reason, extremely hard for me to do, so after a while I flake out on the chick, be this lethargic unattractive dude (and believe me I hate it). Any suggestions or reasons on how to overcome this? Thanx in advance- from another fellow Don Juan
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You have to have the right mindset, when you feel your confidence fading try a couple of things(I mix it up)

1) Realize not that you are going to get the girl, realize that you will be ok if you don't get the girl.

2) Imagine yourself as a spider and your seduction of her is you spinning your web and the more she tries to resist your web and fight it the deeper into your web she falls.

Anyways it's all about keeping your frame strong, without it you have nothing.
 
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hey thanks a lot comote. Looks like you've been here for a while too lol. I used to visit this board every single day... back when I was still getting my dj together lol> anyway hopefully i'll be able to talk you soon.
 
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