"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey I've been on this site for quite some time now and have been through the bad and the good and now i can truely say I've benefitted and had my share of women; however, I do have one questions for the truely gifted donjuans here. I have tremendous success when first meeting women, but keeping that spark and that same mindset over a period of time with the same chick is, for reason, extremely hard for me to do, so after a while I flake out on the chick, be this lethargic unattractive dude (and believe me I hate it). Any suggestions or reasons on how to overcome this? Thanx in advance- from another fellow Don Juan
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You have to have the right mindset, when you feel your confidence fading try a couple of things(I mix it up)

1) Realize not that you are going to get the girl, realize that you will be ok if you don't get the girl.

2) Imagine yourself as a spider and your seduction of her is you spinning your web and the more she tries to resist your web and fight it the deeper into your web she falls.

Anyways it's all about keeping your frame strong, without it you have nothing.
 
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hey thanks a lot comote. Looks like you've been here for a while too lol. I used to visit this board every single day... back when I was still getting my dj together lol> anyway hopefully i'll be able to talk you soon.
 
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