Hey I've been on this site for quite some time now and have been through the bad and the good and now i can truely say I've benefitted and had my share of women; however, I do have one questions for the truely gifted donjuans here. I have tremendous success when first meeting women, but keeping that spark and that same mindset over a period of time with the same chick is, for reason, extremely hard for me to do, so after a while I flake out on the chick, be this lethargic unattractive dude (and believe me I hate it). Any suggestions or reasons on how to overcome this? Thanx in advance- from another fellow Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
On persistence
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