"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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On "not masturbating"

Chase Dat Skuht

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I can understand the idea of stopping masturbating so that you are motivated to get real girls, but dont you have to masturbate pretty often before that works?

I went a long time without masturbating, months. Its almost like my body got used to it and I was not motivated. I was confused and decided to start masturbating again. Once a day or so. Now that I masturbate more often I am more horny, I feel like I want to masturbate so I think that I could use this to my advantage when goin after real girls. If my body is used to me masturbating everyday it only makes sense that if I stop for a day I'll be more motivated.

Anyway, anyone have some input? I think the idea of not masturbating should be more specific, such as doing it every other day instead of never. I think when people suggest to stop masturbating this is for those who masturbate way to often. Correct?

I havent heard anyone mention anything like this.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vypros

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Masturbation can be deadly if you become addicted to it (if you are cranking it everyday, you MIGHT be borderline on having a "problem" unless you are a teenager going through puberty/your sexual peak).

There is no harm in masturbating once in a while. In fact, from a medical standpoint, I think it's even ENCOURAGED because I've heard that it cuts the risk of prostate cancer (too lazy to find a link).
 

Fred Da Head

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Having "an orgasm a day" (for lack of better terms) is thought to be good for the prostate, but it's not a medical truism yet.
 
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