"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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On "not masturbating"

Chase Dat Skuht

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I can understand the idea of stopping masturbating so that you are motivated to get real girls, but dont you have to masturbate pretty often before that works?

I went a long time without masturbating, months. Its almost like my body got used to it and I was not motivated. I was confused and decided to start masturbating again. Once a day or so. Now that I masturbate more often I am more horny, I feel like I want to masturbate so I think that I could use this to my advantage when goin after real girls. If my body is used to me masturbating everyday it only makes sense that if I stop for a day I'll be more motivated.

Anyway, anyone have some input? I think the idea of not masturbating should be more specific, such as doing it every other day instead of never. I think when people suggest to stop masturbating this is for those who masturbate way to often. Correct?

I havent heard anyone mention anything like this.

Input, go :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Vypros

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Masturbation can be deadly if you become addicted to it (if you are cranking it everyday, you MIGHT be borderline on having a "problem" unless you are a teenager going through puberty/your sexual peak).

There is no harm in masturbating once in a while. In fact, from a medical standpoint, I think it's even ENCOURAGED because I've heard that it cuts the risk of prostate cancer (too lazy to find a link).
 

Fred Da Head

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Having "an orgasm a day" (for lack of better terms) is thought to be good for the prostate, but it's not a medical truism yet.
 
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