"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That_Guy49

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I have met scores and scores of girls but it seems as if after a period of time I stop talking to certain girls....We either just dont see each other often anymore or I feel awkward talking to them after a long time...also, its hard for me to even try to get a girl to hang out with me now a days because my life is such a mess. I procrastinate, I'm always doing things at a very lazy pace, my car is beginning to break down physically, I do so much in one day that i forget to clean my car or any other things..in the end I just feel like I'd be boring the girl because I don't have anything too interesting to talk about besides the dank bowl I smoked last night or half gram of coke I did,.,,I'm tired of all the bull**** I put myself through....I feel so exhausted at the end of the day and hopeless about the next day.

man...I feel kinda depressed.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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08aisaac

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Maybe it's from the drugs?
 

Sammo

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Get it together, noone else is going to do it for you.
 

oakraiderz2

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Alright doing coke, way to go! :rolleyes: I had a friend who started doing coke and now hes a homeless bum who basically works for coke. Stop doing drugs cause you obviously cant handle it. You have other things to worry about than girls it appears.
 
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