"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That_Guy49

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I have met scores and scores of girls but it seems as if after a period of time I stop talking to certain girls....We either just dont see each other often anymore or I feel awkward talking to them after a long time...also, its hard for me to even try to get a girl to hang out with me now a days because my life is such a mess. I procrastinate, I'm always doing things at a very lazy pace, my car is beginning to break down physically, I do so much in one day that i forget to clean my car or any other things..in the end I just feel like I'd be boring the girl because I don't have anything too interesting to talk about besides the dank bowl I smoked last night or half gram of coke I did,.,,I'm tired of all the bull**** I put myself through....I feel so exhausted at the end of the day and hopeless about the next day.

man...I feel kinda depressed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe it's from the drugs?
 
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Get it together, noone else is going to do it for you.
 
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oakraiderz2

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Alright doing coke, way to go! :rolleyes: I had a friend who started doing coke and now hes a homeless bum who basically works for coke. Stop doing drugs cause you obviously cant handle it. You have other things to worry about than girls it appears.
 
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