"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That_Guy49

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I have met scores and scores of girls but it seems as if after a period of time I stop talking to certain girls....We either just dont see each other often anymore or I feel awkward talking to them after a long time...also, its hard for me to even try to get a girl to hang out with me now a days because my life is such a mess. I procrastinate, I'm always doing things at a very lazy pace, my car is beginning to break down physically, I do so much in one day that i forget to clean my car or any other things..in the end I just feel like I'd be boring the girl because I don't have anything too interesting to talk about besides the dank bowl I smoked last night or half gram of coke I did,.,,I'm tired of all the bull**** I put myself through....I feel so exhausted at the end of the day and hopeless about the next day.

man...I feel kinda depressed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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08aisaac

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Maybe it's from the drugs?
 

Sammo

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Get it together, noone else is going to do it for you.
 

oakraiderz2

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Alright doing coke, way to go! :rolleyes: I had a friend who started doing coke and now hes a homeless bum who basically works for coke. Stop doing drugs cause you obviously cant handle it. You have other things to worry about than girls it appears.
 
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