"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jaylan said:
^lol believe what you want buddy.
I -know- what I know, kid, and one thing I know is that it's a good thing you aren't a lawyer.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dasein said:
I -know- what I know, kid, and one thing I know is that it's a good thing you aren't a lawyer.
Lol, people in my family study and practice law. And they dont think anything Ive said is off base. Seems to me you just have your own feelings about this and it influences your legal reasoning. No one is free from this effect, while sitting from afar and trying to judge a case they have nothing to do with.

Dont act like youre the end-all, be-all of sound legal reasoning. Because we could both find articles and blogs written by students and law professionals that back up what we think.
 

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Jaylan said:
Because we could both find articles and blogs written by students and law professionals that back up what we think.
No, you won't find any such thing that backs up your repeated claim from any legitimate legal source because it doesn't exist. No legitimate legal commentator or lawyer, and obviously none of those exist in your family if what you say about their opinions is true, would claim, erroneously, that the matter in question necessarily ended with the express wording in the NBA Constitution as you have over and over. For whatever reasons, Sterling decided to cede control to his wife and end the process where he did, but rest assured there were other options open to him, namely appeal procedures within the NBA structure, likely arbitration, and then proceeding to court, where he would have had a very strong case and likely counterclaims IMO.
 

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Espi said:
http://msn.foxsports.com/nba/story/...word-new-york-donald-sterling-mistress-060114

Well it looks like our girl was attacked over the weekend.

I never advocate hitting women, but my visceral reaction is NOT one of sympathy.

What a circus.
That girl is hideous, I just don't understand...

She baited Sterling into saying those things and now she's going to take her moments of glory and go all Lewinsky on the media.

And the media, so shocked at the comments are going to go ahead and put that conniving slore on their shows that is equally guilty of racism and more.
 
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