"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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On Dignity

Glumix

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Viktor Frankl said:
Today's society is characterized by achievement orientation, and consequently it adores people who are successful and happy and, in particular, it adores the young. It virtually ignores the value of all those who are otherwise, and in so doing blurs the decisive difference between being valuable in the sense of usefulness and being valuable in the sense of dignity. - Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Is your next girlfriend going to be valuable for her usefulness or for her sense of dignity? I will certainly not overlook dignity the next time I meet a woman. And I will certainly not overlook my own sense of dignity. Which is what gives me value and what gives my life a meaning, to heighten myself above my past self. To live my life as a Man not the way society wants me to live it but the way I want to live it as a free and responsible human being for there is no freedom without responsibility.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sprayarc

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Is your next girlfriend going to be valuable for her usefulness or for her sense of dignity? I will certainly not overlook dignity the next time I meet a woman. And I will certainly not overlook my own sense of dignity. Which is what gives me value and what gives my life a meaning, to heighten myself above my past self. To live my life as a Man not the way society wants me to live it but the way I want to live it as a free and responsible human being for there is no freedom without responsibility.
So what exactly are you trying to say.
 

yuppee

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He said it. You just lack decent reading comprehension. He should not have to repost it at the 3rd grade level.
 
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