"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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On Dignity

Glumix

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Viktor Frankl said:
Today's society is characterized by achievement orientation, and consequently it adores people who are successful and happy and, in particular, it adores the young. It virtually ignores the value of all those who are otherwise, and in so doing blurs the decisive difference between being valuable in the sense of usefulness and being valuable in the sense of dignity. - Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Is your next girlfriend going to be valuable for her usefulness or for her sense of dignity? I will certainly not overlook dignity the next time I meet a woman. And I will certainly not overlook my own sense of dignity. Which is what gives me value and what gives my life a meaning, to heighten myself above my past self. To live my life as a Man not the way society wants me to live it but the way I want to live it as a free and responsible human being for there is no freedom without responsibility.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sprayarc

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Is your next girlfriend going to be valuable for her usefulness or for her sense of dignity? I will certainly not overlook dignity the next time I meet a woman. And I will certainly not overlook my own sense of dignity. Which is what gives me value and what gives my life a meaning, to heighten myself above my past self. To live my life as a Man not the way society wants me to live it but the way I want to live it as a free and responsible human being for there is no freedom without responsibility.
So what exactly are you trying to say.
 

yuppee

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He said it. You just lack decent reading comprehension. He should not have to repost it at the 3rd grade level.
 
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