"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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On dealing with the haters

lYlasTer

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On your path to becoming a DJ, you're going to have the haters. People who are just insecure with themselves and can't stand the fact that someone is out there LIVING AND LOVING LIFE. Maybe it's your best friend who is an AFC like you were, but is too scared to do ask anyone for numbers. Or it's that girl who feels you're just using girls, but deep down is mad that you never felt "that way" about her. That's life, not everyone's going to like you. True DJ's don't let anyone take their joy away from them, or live their lives trying to please other people. Do what you want.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jayneumann

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Yeah, but it just gets so lonely sometimes.

People are so frivolous, conniving, and jealous, that I often wonder how society manages to remain cohesive because of all this crap. Every time you crawl up that impossibly high mountain, there are those whose existence is defined by pulling you back down with them. But that is part of the game; it is all a game.

I only hope that people can be more honest with themselves.
 

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Originally posted by lYlasTer
On your path to becoming a DJ, you're going to have the haters. People who are just insecure with themselves and can't stand the fact that someone is out there LIVING AND LOVING LIFE. Maybe it's your best friend who is an AFC like you were, but is too scared to do ask anyone for numbers. Or it's that girl who feels you're just using girls, but deep down is mad that you never felt "that way" about her. That's life, not everyone's going to like you. True DJ's don't let anyone take their joy away from them, or live their lives trying to please other people. Do what you want.
Yeah, Do what you want. Be a clueless moron walking around in life.
 
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