"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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On dealing with the haters

lYlasTer

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On your path to becoming a DJ, you're going to have the haters. People who are just insecure with themselves and can't stand the fact that someone is out there LIVING AND LOVING LIFE. Maybe it's your best friend who is an AFC like you were, but is too scared to do ask anyone for numbers. Or it's that girl who feels you're just using girls, but deep down is mad that you never felt "that way" about her. That's life, not everyone's going to like you. True DJ's don't let anyone take their joy away from them, or live their lives trying to please other people. Do what you want.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jayneumann

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Yeah, but it just gets so lonely sometimes.

People are so frivolous, conniving, and jealous, that I often wonder how society manages to remain cohesive because of all this crap. Every time you crawl up that impossibly high mountain, there are those whose existence is defined by pulling you back down with them. But that is part of the game; it is all a game.

I only hope that people can be more honest with themselves.
 

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Originally posted by lYlasTer
On your path to becoming a DJ, you're going to have the haters. People who are just insecure with themselves and can't stand the fact that someone is out there LIVING AND LOVING LIFE. Maybe it's your best friend who is an AFC like you were, but is too scared to do ask anyone for numbers. Or it's that girl who feels you're just using girls, but deep down is mad that you never felt "that way" about her. That's life, not everyone's going to like you. True DJ's don't let anyone take their joy away from them, or live their lives trying to please other people. Do what you want.
Yeah, Do what you want. Be a clueless moron walking around in life.
 
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