Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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On dealing with the haters

lYlasTer

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On your path to becoming a DJ, you're going to have the haters. People who are just insecure with themselves and can't stand the fact that someone is out there LIVING AND LOVING LIFE. Maybe it's your best friend who is an AFC like you were, but is too scared to do ask anyone for numbers. Or it's that girl who feels you're just using girls, but deep down is mad that you never felt "that way" about her. That's life, not everyone's going to like you. True DJ's don't let anyone take their joy away from them, or live their lives trying to please other people. Do what you want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jayneumann

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Yeah, but it just gets so lonely sometimes.

People are so frivolous, conniving, and jealous, that I often wonder how society manages to remain cohesive because of all this crap. Every time you crawl up that impossibly high mountain, there are those whose existence is defined by pulling you back down with them. But that is part of the game; it is all a game.

I only hope that people can be more honest with themselves.
 

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Originally posted by lYlasTer
On your path to becoming a DJ, you're going to have the haters. People who are just insecure with themselves and can't stand the fact that someone is out there LIVING AND LOVING LIFE. Maybe it's your best friend who is an AFC like you were, but is too scared to do ask anyone for numbers. Or it's that girl who feels you're just using girls, but deep down is mad that you never felt "that way" about her. That's life, not everyone's going to like you. True DJ's don't let anyone take their joy away from them, or live their lives trying to please other people. Do what you want.
Yeah, Do what you want. Be a clueless moron walking around in life.
 
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