It's Happening!!!...my girlfriend who's been dead crazy about me is loosing interest cuz of me being a total AFC!...someone needs to help me out QUICK!...i can really really tell that she's loosing interest...it proves that looks isn't everything cuz i can honestly say that i'm one good looking guy but i fail short with everything else...i do show some confidence and such but i just can't be a MAN that she wants...i show too much emotion...too much love...too much attention and it's really really hurting me...today she told me this guy in her class was flirting with her, giving her high fives and all that and i was dead jealous...i'm so pissed that i think it's helping me out in a different way cuz right now i feel like flirting with many girls in college and just expanding my connections with the ladies...i need some major help cuz i really fell for this girl and i'm damn sure that if things don't work out it'll hurt me bad...i know i'm being such a p*ssy right now but i really need help...what should i do?...ignore her?...act like i don't care?...i'm so confused...all the things i've read is becoming useless...someone wake me up and tell me what to do!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
OMG...I don't believe it!!!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Precursor
Don Juan
So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
Michele l'Arcangelo
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i do. it gets me in the door always.Precursor said:So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
but anyway.
break up with her already... is this the trick that turned around in class and blushed because she liked the guy behind her?
you don't love her.
and how come you didnt kill her yet and make her your undead minion?
you people NEVER take my advice! now log off of here.. and get on your necromancer and wreck havoc upon all b.tches!!!
NEVER rely on your looks alone!
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
yeah...big mistake on my part...personality is definitely much more important...though if you have both then be thankful...lolPrecursor said:So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
what do you mean i don't love her?...i do...but yeah...looks can difinitely take you far...yup that's the same girl... = (Michele said:i do. it gets me in the door always.
but anyway.
break up with her already... is this the trick that turned around in class and blushed because she liked the guy behind her?
you don't love her.
and how come you didnt kill her yet and make her your undead minion?
you people NEVER take my advice! now log off of here.. and get on your necromancer and wreck havoc upon all b.tches!!!
you're right...i have oneitis...BIG TIME!!!...i don't know...i really need to change...be a man...not to be afraid to loose a girl cuz theres' plenty but this girl just got me bad...just the thought of other guys banging the living hell out of her drives me crazy...she's a keeper...that's why i need to work on my game...ugh!...anymore advice besides keeping my life and keeping contact with ladies and not pay so much attention to her?limerick said:NEVER rely on your looks alone!
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
foomee
Senior Don Juan
You need to go out and do other things other than being with her. Hang out with your friends, hang out with your female friends. You need to be a challenge. That's one of the number one reasons I hear why women break up with their boyfriends because the relationship got boring, it got stale, same old thing everyday, there was no more of a challenge. Hang out with her less, but when you do, make sure you two have SOO much fun.
everything is true...for me the relationship isn't boring but it is becoming a routine and she might be getting tired and is looking for other guy to give her new excitement...i will definitely start making more friends especially with girls...from my own experience i know how devastating it is for your girlfriend flirting with other guys so that's exactly what i'm going to do...thanks for the advice!~foomee said:You need to go out and do other things other than being with her. Hang out with your friends, hang out with your female friends. You need to be a challenge. That's one of the number one reasons I hear why women break up with their boyfriends because the relationship got boring, it got stale, same old thing everyday, there was no more of a challenge. Hang out with her less, but when you do, make sure you two have SOO much fun.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
stop talking to her, concentrate on other girls.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.